Right before I started this blog, I was going through a phase that I call ‘The worst time of my life’. I lost my confidence in myself, lost my friendship with the people that I trusted so much and wasn’t quite able to figure out the passion of my life. There was anxiety, depression and frustration. I couldn’t open up these feeling with my parents or my younger brother who looked up to me so much. It was during this time that I felt so lonely in life. It was the most horrible feeling ever, trust me.

But a good thing also happened sideways. It was during this time that I started to pen down my feeling into a diary and slowly fell in love with the process of writing. I wrote what I felt everyday and it was a great relief for me. I felt something like never before. Writing helped me think a lot about my life. I was able to figure out a lot of good things and it broadened my perspective of thinking.

And slowly that’s how I was inspired to start this blog. I consider it to be a great privilege and a sincere blessing that life gave me. Through the blogging journey I met a lot of good people. Daily conversations with them made my day. It made me happy and cheerful. All because of the loneliness that I had faced long back.

I want to thank it because if I hadn’t been lonely that time, maybe I wouldn’t have started this blog. I would not have been able to meet these wonderful people and know them from around the world.

So you see, loneliness isn’t a bad thing after all. Sometimes you face it because it’s preparing you for something even more better. So don’t be worried or desperate in being lonely. Just embrace it !!

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54 replies

  1. Yes very true Abhijith, we must embrace the loneliness to be happier ever..I like your style of writing. Thanks.. keep blogging.!!!

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  2. Lonely isn’t you are no friends. You just like lonely because lonely is the best choice… πŸ˜€

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  3. Especially if you’re happy.

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  4. Aw, that’s so sweet. I think you’re absolutely right – if there comes a time that people don’t see who you are, that doesn’t mean people someday will. It’s important to love yourself first, even if it can kinda be difficult. Are you all right with your family and friends now? πŸ™‚

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  5. Totally agree with this. I too am going through such a bad phase and can relate well!

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  6. Decided to have a look at your posts, what you’ve said here is basically why I started writing a few posts:)

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  7. You’ve taken a very sad experience and turned it into something creative and fulfilling. I hope your diary and your blog continue to open you to new friendships and worthy moments.

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  8. I love reading stories of how writing comforts other people through tough times the same way it did for me. Just had a few reads of your posts and I must say that this blog is the place where you go to when you feel down and sad. I love how you incorporate your personal stories to inspire and motivate people. Keep it up. x

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  9. Another book for your reading list is: Quiet by Susan Cain. In the meantime, I may be alone, a lot, but I am not lonely. πŸ™‚

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  10. This is really cool and super relatable! Your blog inspires so many

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  11. Wonderful read and I can relate to this so much! Love it!! ❀️ Thanks for your inspiring words!

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  12. Ok..I am not saying just like that but seriously i am liking your blogs.I have read almost all the blogs of you.
    If u don’t mind can i ask you if you are a full time blogger?

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  13. There are few things, which need not to be tell to world, it should be with you. You should feel it. Nice one. Hey I would need your support for Multilingual support. My content is already reached to 30+ countries so thought to provide language support so that my every reader can read it with comfort

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  14. I agree….. sometimes u need to be alone to find yourself…
    Btw…very well expressed….πŸ˜ƒ

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  15. That’s so true …. thank you for being so honest.

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  16. Sometimes it’s nice to be alone as it gives time to spend with self

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